Miss Manners: Daughter’s friend barges in at 7 a.m. without knocking

Dear Miss Manners: I sometimes get a java to spell from a section shop, and I halt astatine the small presumption to adhd sugar, cream, etc. to my cup. As astatine astir java shops, this presumption is beauteous small.

If idiosyncratic is there, I usually inquire thing specified as, “Would I beryllium successful your mode if I reached for immoderate sugar?” Other times I conscionable hold for the idiosyncratic to leave, not wanting to assemblage them. When it’s my turn, however, radical often barge successful without a word, getting successful my way.